Hearing vs. Listening

Hearing is the passive act of sound waves hitting the ear.
Listening is the active process of paying attention, absorbing, and processing those sounds. Ironically, we rarely say “See what you’re looking at,” so “Listen to what you’re hearing” can become equally redundant—if you’re truly hearing in the moment, you are already taking it in.

Practical Note: Avoid “waiting for your cue word.” Focus on the other person’s intention and emotional weight, not just their final word.